We have all probably seen the effects of a crash with multiple vehicles involved. What started with one driver’s mistake began a chain reaction that resulted in many other innocent people getting hurt. Maybe you’ve actually experienced this yourself. Whether you are on the beginning or receiving end, these situations are no fun at all.
Divorce is the same way. What starts with you or your spouse starts a chain reaction that results in your children being crushed. If you’re a divorced parent, you already know what I mean. As a parent, there’s nothing worse than not watching your kids grow up without you. The effects of the “accident” doesn’t stop there though; there are immediate and distant family members, friends, loved ones and many others who may also get hurt. Just as there are things you can do to reduce your chances of being involved in a crash on the road, there are things you can do to avoid crashing into a divorce. Find out how to divorce proof your marriage today. Comment here.
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Have you ever heard the expression “Where there’s smoke, there’s fire?” In the trucking industry, there are many opportunities to flirt with co-workers, waitresses, and other drivers that we meet. Sometimes, what started as something very simple and innocent, turns into more and you can get caught up in something that hurts your spouse. You could end up facing a divorce as a result. May I encourage you to avoid this situation? How would you feel if someone else flirted with your spouse the same way you are doing? In fact, why don’t you call your spouse and flirt with them. They will appreciate it and your marriage will be the better for it. Comment here.
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I looked at my neighbor’s lawn the other day and noticed his grass looked much greener. I struggle to keep the crab grass and clover out of mine, while his always looks so nice. I went over to find out what he did to his lawn. As I got closer, suddenly I noticed that it didn’t look as nice as it did before. He had problems with his lawn too. Surprisingly, they were pretty close to the ones I was having, along with a few others. After some polite conversation, I turned around to head home. Amazingly, I saw that my lawn looked really nice from his yard. Isn’t that the way marriage is too? Sometimes your marriage doesn’t appear to be all that good when compared to others. We often wish we could have something different. However, keep in mind the grass is NOT greener on the other side. Don’t give up on your marriage. Seek help today. Comment here.
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A television show called The Starter Wife revolves around a recently divorced woman and her daughter starting a new life together. The characters confront the many difficulties that follow a divorce such as emotional pain, financial shortfalls and parenting complications. Even though the show is very popular and has been nominated for several awards, the issues they discuss are very real. In real life, there are no popularity awards given to divorcees. It is painful and sometimes there are lifelong scars. Maybe you have experienced this pain. Maybe you are contemplating a divorce right now. Let me encourage you to seek help so you can avoid the pain of divorce. Comment here.
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Do you have a short fuse? What does it take to set you off? It sure seems like everyone’s fuse is getting shorter in our society. Just watch the news for a couple of minutes. You’ll see the results of short fuses. This should not be the case in our marriages. Part of loving our spouse is being slow to anger and quick to forgive. Wouldn’t you want the same for yourself? No one wants to deliberately make a mistake. Your mate probably didn’t do whatever it is you’re mad at them about on purpose. So don’t get upset with your spouse when they make a mistake; forgive them quickly. Your marriage will be much happier. Comment here.
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Psychology Today, a popular psychology magazine, once cited the top stressful events people experience as: 1. Losing a spouse through death 2. Losing a spouse through divorce 3. Losing a spouse through separation Do you see a pattern here? Today, in our society, it seems that divorce has become the norm. Maybe that’s because it’s much easier to quit, than to persevere. If you are married, please do everything in your power to maintain your marriage. It may be necessary to get some outside help too. Let me encourage you to endure the hard times because the end result will mean less stress for you. Let us help you today. Comment here.
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As truck drivers, we’ve experienced rude people on the highways. Whether someone cuts you off, flashes an improper hand gesture or just mouths nasty words, we have all either seen or been victim to road rudeness before. Given the size difference between my truck and most four-wheelers, it always amazes me to see some of the rude and erratic driving habits. Maybe you’ve been rude to someone on the highway yourself? Let me ask you this: Since we know how it feels when someone is rude to us, why would we do it to anyone else? That’s especially true with marriage. There is absolutely no room for rudeness in our marriages. Search your past behavior for signs of rudeness and then get rid of all traces of it from your life. Resist the temptation to make improper hand gestures, using nasty words or name calling towards your spouse. Your marriage will be better for it. Comment here.
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Have you heard the expression “It’s the thought that counts?” Well, I beg to differ. Early in my marriage, I tried to use this idea to excuse myself. Men, please don’t try this at home! I would forget to buy her a birthday or an anniversary present. Now, I had thought about it but I didn’t actually do it. When she asked me about it, I would say “Well, I thought about buying you a gift, isn’t that what counts?” The answer was always a resounding “NO!” It seems as if remembering important dates or events is harder for men than it is women, but that’s no excuse. Part of being in love is being thoughtful about what’s important to our spouses. Men, do something thoughtful for your wife today and women, keep it up. Comment here.
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Driver, are you going to be home today or on the road? No matter where you’ll be, you still have the opportunity to express your love to your spouse and family. How about giving each family member a small gift to let them know you are thinking of them? When my kids were still living at home I gave each child a box of candy. They truly enjoyed them so much. Sometimes, we get so busy with the task at hand that we forget to let our loved ones know how much they mean to us. Make a special effort to contact them today and tell them that you care. Let’s make it a special day for your loved ones. You’ll be glad you did. Comment here.
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Who is the most important person in your life? Is it you? Our society today is very self-centered, and it promotes us to be the same way. Just listen to some of the slogans used in TV advertising, “You deserve a break today” or “Have it your way”. This type of thinking is very damaging to a marriage. Have you heard this expression of marriage “the two shall become one”? In order for that to happen, our thoughts need to focus on someone other than ourselves. When each spouse puts the best interests of the other first, both partners’ needs are met. I promise that you will both be much happier. Do something that meets your spouse’s interests today. Comment here.
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Part of loving your spouse, is being kind to them. There will be times when we don’t feel like being kind. In fact, there probably were some times that we weren’t kind to our spouse. Our mates will do things that don’t deserve our kindness, but so do we, right? Kindness is not a feeling, it’s an action. When we are kind, tender hearted and forgiving instead of mean, angry and bitter our marriages will be much better. Let me encourage you to do something kind for your spouse today for absolutely no reason to show them your love. Comment here.
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When we got married, we promised to love our spouses til death do us part. How’s that going? There’s a whole lot more to this love thing than anyone could have ever explained before our wedding day when we made that promise. Some of us learn about love by going through the school of hard knocks. Love is defined in many ways. However, may I give you a couple of words that will help: humbleness, gentleness, and patience. When you face the difficult times in your marriage show your love to your spouse by applying these words to your actions. It will make the hard times not so hard and help you keep your promise. Comment here.
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What qualities do you bring to your marriage? What qualities drew you to your spouse? Each of us has good qualities that help make our marriages what they are today. These positive life skills or personality traits range from being a financial provider, managing household needs, being a good communicator, money management skills, to the ability to be funny when faced with difficulties. Sometimes these qualities get forgotten about, ignored or set on the back burner. There is one quality that will not go unseen provided it is shown properly and regularly – LOVE. You could do everything else perfectly, but if you don’t show or tell your spouse regularly that you love them, all the other good qualities you posses won’t do any good. Don’t forget to show or tell your spouse that you love them today. Comment here.
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We have all heard or used certain phrases or words to describe our marriage. Let me give you one that I think sums up the kind that make it for the long haul. That word is committed. Don’t get me wrong, there will be times of difficulties, stress, loneliness and doubts during the course of our marriage. These rough roads could very easily put us on a detour from our original course of “till death do us part”. Don’t let that happen, stay committed to your spouse and to the promise you made. Other words that will make commitment easier are words like love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Keep these words close to your heart so that you may keep your commitment to your spouse. Comment here.
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How do you talk to your spouse? Do you focus on the negative or the positive? My dad used to tell me “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” When our marriages aren’t going well, our first response is to be judgmental or disappointed towards our mate. This only adds to the problem. There is a time to question our spouses when the load of our marriage gets too heavy, but we must cautiously pick those times and do it in a loving manner (this might require someone else’s help). Our words can do more damage than we know. We should only use words that build up our spouse, not tear them down. No one likes to be torn down. Start using only the good words today.Comment here.
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Are you experiencing anger in your marriage? It’s hard enough to maintain open communication in a marriage when you are home every day, not to mention while out on the road. Sometimes we say harsh words to our spouse. Sometimes our significant others get frustrated during our absence and take their anger out on us. Let me encourage you to love your mate more than yourself even during these difficult times. Don’t let the circumstance steer your anger. Let love do the driving. Comment here.
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Are you angry or bitter with your wife or husband? Is there resentment in your marriage? Let me assure you that there is no faster way to an unhappy marriage than to let resentment and bitterness move in and stay. Don’t get me wrong, there might be some very legitimate issues in your marriage that cause you to be angry and question your spouse. It could be about your career choice, money (or lack thereof), doubt, children, family members, infidelity or a lack of trust. These have to be addressed right away. Don’t let them fester. Remember that no one is perfect including you. Honor your commitment to your spouse and leave no room for resentment. Comment here.
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Who is the most important person in your home—you or your spouse? Whose needs and desires come first? Your love for your spouse should be so great that you always, and I mean always, think of their needs first. Oh, I know that’s not easy. We are not programmed that way. Society says you should put yourself first. You’ve heard the slogans: “You deserve a break today” or “Have it your way”. But this kind of attitude is not right. If your marriage is going to work, you need to love your spouse more than yourself. This means thinking of them daily, making sure that they know you’re thinking of them, and going out of your way to make sure you are meeting their needs. Do you know what your spouse’s needs are? This is a great place to start. Ask. This will let your spouse know how much you care. When both spouses seek to meet each other’s needs, everyone’s needs are met. Let the change in your marriage start with you today. Comment here.
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Sometimes it seems the demands that drivers face each and every day are worlds apart from the demands that their spouses handle at home. If not managed well by both partners, these “separate” paths could easily tear the marriage apart. While you’re out on the road, life at home is full of appointments, deadlines, bills, family issues, little league games and sometimes problems. Find a way to communicate about these issues as they come. Remember, if something falls apart, it’s probably not the desire of your spouse for this to happen, so don’t blame them. Work through problems together and remember your promise regarding “for better or worse”. Don’t let it tear your marriage apart. Comment here.
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We have all heard that when you get married two now become one. What does this really mean? How can we become one person? You are quite often separated by hundreds of miles and aren’t home long enough to become one. This is extremely hard as a driver, but not impossible. Look for ways to connect every day. It is easier today than ever before with the technology that is available. A couple can make decisions together, share joys and pains together, support each other, and love one another even though physically separated. Don’t let distance come between you. Stay one. Comment here.
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Driver, are you thinking of getting married while living on the road? You’ll face some additional challenges within your marriage that others simply won’t. If you’re a driver who is already married, you know this better than most. Remember these words? “I (insert name), take you (insert name), to be my wedded spouse; to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish ‘till death do us part. And hereto I pledge you my faithfulness.” How serious is this promise? Do we repeat these words on our wedding day because that’s what the minister tells us to do? Are these vows possible to keep? Can we get help to keep these promises when times get tough? All of these questions are valid. We would like to help you find the answers to these questions for your life. Comment here.
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In a recent conversation with a driver, he was pondering if it would be better to buy a newer truck or overhaul the one he owned. It was tempting to go out looking for something newer and better. However, since he had certain attachments to his truck, he decided to rebuild the engine and get a few more years out of it. The same thing could be said about marriage. At times, when you and your spouse aren’t getting along or have become more like roommates, it may be tempting to think about having something newer or better. During these times, remember your initial commitment when you first became husband and wife. Focus on those things that first attracted you to your spouse. Try planning a date night and enjoy just being together. You both will benefit and can continue to enjoy many more good years together. Comment here.
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There are many things in life that deserve your protection. Your marriage and your spouse should be first on your list. While parked on a busy city street, I watched as a husband stepped into the street between his wife and the cars whizzing by so she could safely slip inside the door. A seemingly small act, but it demonstrated his desire to protect her and make sure she was safe. When you are on the road, you can protect your marriage by avoiding those things that tempt you to be unfaithful. When your spouse receives your verbal support on issues that come up on the home front, this lets them know that you care for their wellbeing and will help them feel secure. When your spouse knows that you will go out of your way to protect them and your marriage, you will earn their support, respect, and love. Need help in this area? Let us know. Comment here.
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Have you ever said something to your spouse that later or maybe as soon as it came out of your mouth, you wish you could take back? Keep in mind this is not the end of the world and by taking some steps in the right direction, things can get better. The first step to take is to ask for forgiveness. When that happens, you can then begin to work toward rebuilding your relationship. Secondly, use your past failures to help you learn and prepare for the future. Take what you’ve learned and apply it the next time you find yourself in a similar situation, because unfortunately you may end up there again. If you want different results, you can’t keep doing the same old thing. Need help in this area? Comment here.
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Have you ever had your spouse do something which continually goes against what you believe is best? Typically when spouses differ on any type of issue, it’s time to sit down and hash it out until an agreement can be reached. Sometimes this takes a while and can be done very loudly, but hopefully a compromise will be found. What do you do if this doesn’t happen? Keep this in mind: we don’t always get what we want. Sometimes we need to accept what our spouse wants regardless of our own desires or what we think is best. The love we have for our spouse and the way we treat them should always override any issue. Remember, love is the greatest thing of all. Comment here.
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How do you talk to your spouse? How would you like to be talked to? I have found, but not mastered, that speaking to your spouse in a way that builds them up always works the best. The opposite of this is to speak to them in ways that tear them down. This will always hurt your significant other and your relationship in deeper ways than you might think. When you are in a heated discussion, this concept can be very difficult to remember. The next time you find yourself toe to toe with the one you love, try taking a step back, a couple of deep breaths, and remember to speak in ways that will bless them, not crush them. Both you and your spouse will appreciate it in the long run. Comment here.
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How long have you been married? Six months, two years, the so-called dreaded seven years or maybe it has been forty? Congratulations, however long it has been! It takes work to keep a marriage functioning well. Remember that two completely different people come together to make one. This is not easy, and at times it doesn’t seem to get any easier. Be assured, however, if you put the time and effort into what you experienced on your wedding day, your marriage relationship can still be or can become again the best thing that has ever happened to you. Share with us your greatest memories of marriage. Comment here.
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I’d like to share with you what I believe the “roles” in a marriage should be. Let me state, first of all, that just because there are different roles, it doesn’t make one better or greater than the other. Just like the Armed Forces, there are different ranks, and as each one works together to complete its own responsibilities, the larger goal gets accomplished. Husbands, you are the leader in the home, so lead properly, not selfishly. Wives, you are the helper, so help accordingly, as to accompany your husband. Together you can get it done. Comment here.
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Conflict in marriage is as sure as sparks flying up from a fire. When a marriage is new, things like money, having kids, a mortgage, and other issues crowd in and make it hard for newlyweds to see eye to eye. As a marriage matures, different difficulties come up as kids get older, your income grows, and new issues, such as parenting, materialism, and retirement investing come into play. The question is not whether or not you will have conflict in your marriage, but rather what you will do about it. Let us know how you handle your conflicts. Comment here.
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My parents are approaching a milestone anniversary – their 50th! That’s a major accomplishment for any couple. Already, the entire family is working on the special celebration plans. What plans are you making in order to reach this milestone in your marriage? Have you set some goals or created a plan to make sure you marriage will last? If not, think about establishing some goals. As drivers, we have to work extra hard to make sure our marriages last. Tell us what plans you’ve made. Comment here.
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I recently celebrated a wedding anniversary after many great years being married to the same woman. It was great to reflect back on one of the most beautiful days of my life. Much has changed since that day. Our kids aren’t kids any more, we’ve moved from the original home we bought together and I no longer work for the same place I did back then. One thing that hasn’t changed is the love I have for my wife. In fact, it’s only grown. How are your marriage memories? If you are struggling with it, contact us. We’d love to help. Comment here.
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Every anniversary, my father-in-law jokingly shares how long he’s been married in the following fashion, “We’ve been married for forty-four good years – forty-three for her and one for me!” Rest assured that’s just his sense of humor talking, which is something I really enjoy about him. For some of you, what he said only in jest is actually the situation you’re in. There are ways to make your marriage worth keeping. Don’t let another year of marriage go by without working on it. Let us know how we can help. Comment here.
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I recently attended a family wedding being held out of town. My wife and I arrived a few days early in order to help with the rehearsal dinner and the wedding day activities. I really enjoyed watching the enthusiasm the young couple had. They shared with us their newly purchased home and future plans. They were filled with excitement.
I thought back to the days before my marriage began and wondered, “Where did the excitement go?” Oh, I still have a great marriage. But I’m not as excited about it as these two were. How do you keep the excitement in your marriage while you’re out on the road? Let us know. Comment here.
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Driver, have you ever cheated on your wife? While you are on the road, there is every opportunity and enticement to stray. Sometimes you may feel especially vulnerable when you are lonely and there seems to be no one to talk to. Suddenly, there she is knocking on your door. In a weak moment, you do the unthinkable. Now you live with fear and guilt, hoping your wife never finds out and knowing what you did was wrong. We can help. Comment here.
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The structure and teamwork displayed in football simply amazes me. Some say “The best offense is a good defense.” It’s sure exciting to see a defensive lineman recover a fumble and run it in for a touchdown. However, this type of action is not the goal for a defensive player. Their objective is to guard their territory and prevent the other team from advancing.
In marriage, a good defense does not make a good offense. The next time you find yourself in a struggle, don’t try to be a defensive player and guard your territory. Instead, be a good offensive player by working together to solve the problem. Call us if we can help. Comment here.
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Do you love your spouse? Can I ask you how you love them? There are three types of love. The first type is called agape which means to love someone unconditionally. No matter what you choose to love someone anyway. In other words, your love is not dependant on how they act or what they have done. The second type is called Philia for friendship. The third type is Eros, the root word for erotic. I shouldn’t have to explain that one to anyone! So let me ask you again, do you love your spouse and with what kind of love? Comment here.
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Recently, as I listened to a discussion between a man and his wife, I thought about the makeup of men and women. Men are naturally right-brained. Distinctions of being right-brained are remembering things we see and do, as well as putting bits of information together to understand the big picture. Women on the other hand are primarily left-brained. Some of those traits are understanding and using language (listening, reading, speaking and writing), a memory for spoken and written messages, and a detailed analysis of all the information.
Now that you know this, what should you do with it? How about using that knowledge to help you communicate effectively in your marriage? Sometimes, there are exceptions to these traits. So, get to know how your spouse thinks. Then, learn to communicate to her using the way she thinks. You won’t regret it. Comment here.
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Most men are motivated by respect. That’s why most soldiers will follow their general into battle even when a threat of death is possible. Men give their all and are willing to die for the cause. I commend drivers that have served in our armed forces. Let me give you another situation that I’d love to see the same respect. That is our marriages. Most men are willing to die for their country, but how about your wife? When was the last time you let your personal wants and needs “die” in order to love your wife? This is the type of devotion we should have for our mates. If we’re consistent, our wives won’t be able to do anything but respect us. Let us know if we can help. Comment here.
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I was once taught that there are two major things in a marriage that will either make or break it: love and respect. Have you ever heard of Aretha Franklin’s song R-E-S-P-E-C-T or the one done by the Beetles, All You need is Love? Ironically, while both of these are true, men are the ones that need respect, and women are the ones that need love. It’s how we’re wired. So the next time you encounter a challenge in your marriage relationship, give one of these a try. They work! Comment here.
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Someone once told me that the definition of “crazy” is doing the same thing over and over and expecting to get a different result. This holds true in a struggling marriage. The argument topics may change, but our reactions stay the same day after day, month after month, and year after year. Next time you get into an argument, why don’t you try reacting in a different way? For example, guys, act in a loving manner toward your wife and ladies, act in a respectful manner toward your husband. Then watch what happens. Comment here.
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I once heard a speaker explain why so many have marital difficulties. He stated that somewhere within the marriage there was a lack of love on the husband’s part or a lack of respect on the wife’s part. This started a vicious cycle that we can’t break out of. You see, without love, a wife’s reaction to her husband will be lacking in respect. And when a husband gets treated without respect, he will react without love to his wife. See the cycle? Stop it! Become proactive and respond to your mate with what they need. Try it. It works well. Comment here.
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Quite often, my wife and I have conversations that don’t make sense. Although I’ve listened intently, somewhere along the line, I missed something. On the other hand, when I tell my wife things I’m sure I’ve explained it thoroughly, but it gets messed up too. So, what’s the problem? Where does this go wrong? Well, I’ve come to the conclusion that men and women think and speak differently. “Really” you say, like you didn’t know this already. I have also come to the conclusion that neither one of us is right or wrong, just different. So knowing this, next time try to speak and listen to your spouse like they think and speak. It will help you to understand each other. Comment here.
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Today, couples try to live together without getting married to avoid the requirement of commitment. Doing so, however, short circuits the intimacy between them that is supposed to beautiful. The result is instability, uncertainty and chaos. Do you want to see what the real concept of marriage is? Contact us. Comment here.
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Fidelity, which means faithfulness, is a word I haven’t heard in a long time. It can be applied to marriage, your purpose in life, the company that you serve, or your relationships. I would like to talk about marriage. Today, we hear so much about couples breaking their marriage vows. The inevitable divorce will mean the emotional rending apart of husband and wife. The process is horrific and both will get hurt in the end. Children suffer the most, often feeling they are the cause of their parents’ problems. This is not the way marriage is supposed to be. Contact us. Comment here.
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A man marries a woman and everything is great. After some time, they begin to argue. He is gone from home weeks at a time. She never expected him to be gone all the time. It isn’t any easier for him. His kids are growing up without him. He isn’t living up to what she expected. She was never as demanding as she now is.
When frustrated, mates often become emotionally or verbally abusive toward each other. When they reach an impasse, they decide that the way to solve their problems is to divorce. WRONG. Running away may feel like opening a steam valve so the pressure can be released at first. But divorce really gives everyone involved heartbroken, torn souls and tremendous confusion especially for the innocent children involved. Instead of taking the lazy way out, get counseling and learn to solve your problems together. Marriage is a covenant between two people, “till death do us part.” There is possibly a missing element that could help you honor your covenant. Want to know more? Contact us. Comment here.
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I looked at my neighbor’s lawn the other day and noticed his grass looked much greener. I struggle to keep the crab grass and clover out of mine, while his always looks so nice. I went over to find out what he did to his lawn. As I got closer, suddenly I noticed that it didn’t look as nice as it did before. He had problems with his lawn too. Surprisingly, they were pretty close to the ones I was having, along with a few others. After some polite conversation, I turned around to head home. Amazingly, I saw that my lawn looked really nice from his yard. Isn’t that the way marriage is too? Sometimes your marriage doesn’t appear to be all that good when compared to others. We often wish we could have something different. However, keep in mind the grass is NOT greener on the other side. Don’t give up on your marriage. Seek help today. Comment here.
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A television show called “The Starter Wife” revolves around a recently divorced woman and her daughter starting a new life together. The characters confront the many difficulties that follow a divorce such as emotional pain, financial shortfalls and parenting complications. Even though the show is very popular and has been nominated for several awards, the issues they discuss are very real. In real life, there are no popularity awards given to divorcees. It is painful and sometimes there are lifelong scars. Maybe you have experienced this pain. Maybe you are contemplating a divorce right now. Let me encourage you to see help so you can avoid the pain of divorce. Comment here.
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Do you have a short fuse? What does it take to set you off? It sure seems like everyone’s fuse is getting shorter in our society. Just watch the news for a couple of minutes. You’ll see the results of short fuses. This should not be the case in our marriages. Part of loving our spouse is being slow to anger and quick to forgive. Wouldn’t you want the same for yourself? No one wants to deliberately make a mistake. Your mate probably didn’t do whatever it is you’re mad at them about on purpose. So don’t get upset with your spouse when they make a mistake; forgive them quickly. Your marriage will be much happier. Comment here.
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Psychology Today, a popular psychology magazine, cited the top stressful events people experience in one of their issues:
1.Losing a spouse through death
2.Losing a spouse through divorce
3.Losing a spouse through separation
Do you see a pattern here? Today, in our society, it seems that divorce has become the norm. Maybe that’s because it’s much easier to quit, than to persevere. If you are married, please do everything in your power to maintain your marriage. It may be necessary to get some outside help too. Let me encourage you to endure the hard times because the end result will mean less stress for you. Let us help you today. Comment here.
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As truck drivers, we’ve experienced rude people on the highways. Whether someone cuts you off, flashes an improper hand gesture or just mouths nasty words, we have all either seen or been victim to road rudeness before. Given the size difference between my truck and most four-wheelers, it always amazes me to see some of the rude and erratic driving habits. Maybe you’ve been rude to someone on the highway yourself? Let me ask you this: Since we know how it feels when someone is rude to us, why would we do it to anyone else? That’s especially true with marriage. There is absolutely no room for rudeness in our marriages. Search your past behavior for signs of rudeness and then get rid of all traces of it from your life. Resist the temptation to make improper hand gestures, using nasty words or name calling towards your spouse. Your marriage will be better for it. Comment here.
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Have you heard the expression “It’s the thought that counts?” Well, I beg to differ. Early in my marriage, I tried to use this idea to excuse myself. Men, please don’t try this at home! I would forget to buy her a birthday or an anniversary present. Now, I had thought about it but I didn’t actually do it. When she asked me about it, I would say “Well, I thought about buying you a gift, isn’t that what counts?” The answer was always a resounding “NO!” It seems as if remembering important dates or events is harder for men than it is women, but that’s no excuse. Part of being in love is being thoughtful about what’s important to our spouses. Men, do something thoughtful for your wife today and women, keep it up. Comment here.
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Who is the most important person in your life? Is it you? Our society today is very self-centered, and it promotes us to be the same way. Just listen to some of the slogans used in TV advertising, “You deserve a break today” or “Have it your way”. This type of thinking is very damaging to a marriage. Have you heard this expression of marriage “the two shall become one”? In order for that to happen, our thoughts need to focus on someone other than ourselves. When each spouse puts the best interests of the other first, both partners’ needs are met. I promise that you will both be much happier. Do something that meets your spouse’s interests today. Comment here.
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Part of loving your spouse, is being kind to them. There will be times when we don’t feel like being kind. In fact, there probably were some times that we weren’t kind to our spouse. Our mates will do things that don’t deserve our kindness, but so do we, right? Kindness is not a feeling, it’s an action. When we are kind, tender hearted and forgiving instead of mean, angry and bitter our marriages will be much better. Let me encourage you to do something kind for your spouse today for absolutely no reason to show them your love. Comment here.
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When we got married, we promised to love our spouses til death do us part. How’s that going? There’s a whole lot more to this love thing than anyone could have ever explained before our wedding day when we made that promise. Some of us learn about love by going through the school of hard knocks. Love is defined in many ways. However, may I give you a couple of words that will help: humbleness, gentleness, and patience. When you face the difficult times in your marriage show your love to your spouse by applying these words to your actions. It will make the hard times not so hard and help you keep your promise. Comment here.
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What qualities do you bring to your marriage? What qualities drew you to your spouse? Each of us has good qualities that help make our marriages what they are today. These positive life skills or personality traits range from being a financial provider, managing household needs, being a good communicator, money management skills, to the ability to be funny when faced with difficulties. Sometimes these qualities get forgotten about, ignored or set on the back burner. There is one quality that will not go unseen provided it is shown properly and regularly – LOVE. You could do everything else perfectly, but if you don’t show or tell your spouse regularly that you love them, all the other good qualities you posses won’t do any good. Don’t forget to show or tell your spouse that you love them today. Comment here.
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We have all heard or used certain phrases or words to describe our marriage. Let me give you one that I think sums up the kind that make it for the long haul. That word is committed. Don’t get me wrong, there will be times of difficulties, stress, loneliness and doubts during the course of our marriage. These rough roads could very easily put us on a detour from our original course of “till death do us part”. Don’t let that happen, stay committed to your spouse and to the promise you made. Other words that will make commitment easier are words like love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control. Keep these words close to your heart so that you may keep your commitment to your spouse. Comment here.
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How do you talk to your spouse? Do you focus on the negative or the positive? My dad used to tell me “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” When our marriages aren’t going well, our first response is often to be judgmental or disappointed towards our mate. This only adds to the problem. There is a time to question our spouses when the load of our marriage gets too heavy, but we must cautiously pick those times and do it in a loving manner (this might even require someone else’s help). Our words can do more damage than we know. We should only use words that build our spouse up, not tear them down. No one likes to be torn down. Start using only good words today. Comment here.
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Are you experiencing anger in your marriage? It’s hard enough to maintain open communication in a marriage when you are home every day, not to mention while out on the road. Sometimes we say harsh words to our spouse. Sometimes our significant others get frustrated during our absence and take their anger out on us. Let me encourage you to love your mate more than yourself even during these difficult times. Don’t let the circumstance steer your anger. Let love do the driving. Comment here.
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Are you angry or bitter with your wife or husband? Is there resentment in your marriage? Let me assure you that there is no faster way to an unhappy marriage than to let resentment and bitterness move in and stay. Don’t get me wrong, there might be some very legitimate issues in your marriage that cause you to be angry and question your spouse. It could be about your career choice, money (or lack thereof), doubt, children, family members, infidelity or a lack of trust. These have to be addressed right away. Don’t let them fester. Remember that no one is perfect including you. Honor your commitment to your spouse and leave no room for resentment. Comment here.
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Who is the most important person in your home--You or your spouse? Whose needs and desires come first? Your love for your spouse should be so great that you always, and I mean always, think of their needs first. Oh, I know that’s not easy. We are not programmed that way. Society says you should put yourself first. You’ve heard the slogans:” You deserve a break today” or “Have it your way”. But this kind of attitude is not right. If your marriage is going to work, you need to love your spouse more than yourself. This means thinking of them daily, making sure that they know you’re thinking of them, and going out of your way to make sure you are meeting their needs. Do you know what your spouse’s needs are? This is a great place to start. Ask. This will let your spouse know how much you care. When both spouses seek to meet each other’s needs, everyone’s needs are met. Let the change in your marriage start with you today. Comment here.
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Sometimes it seems the demands that drivers face each and every day are worlds apart from the demands that their spouses handle at home. If not managed well by both partners, these “separate” paths could easily tear the marriage apart. While you’re out on the road, life at home is full of appointments, deadlines, bills, family issues, little league games and sometimes problems. Find a way to communicate about these issues as they come. Remember, if something falls apart, it’s probably not the desire of your spouse for this to happen, so don’t blame them. Work through problems together and remember your promise regarding “for better or worse”. Don’t let it tear your marriage apart. Comment here.
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We have all heard that when you get married two now become one. What does this really mean? How can we become one person? You are quite often separated by hundreds of miles and aren’t home long enough to become one. This is extremely hard as a driver, but not impossible. Look for ways to connect every day. It is easier today than ever before with the technology that is available. A couple can make decisions together, share joys and pains together, support each other, and love one another even though physically separated. Don’t let distance come between you. Stay one. Comment here.
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Driver, are you thinking of getting married while living on the road? You’ll face some additional challenges within your marriage that others simply won’t. If you’re a driver who is already married, you know this better than most. Remember these words? “ I (insert name), take you (insert name), to be my wedded spouse; to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish 'till death do us part. And hereto I pledge you my faithfulness.” How serious is this promise? Do we repeat these words on our wedding day because that’s what the minister tells us to do? Are these vows possible to keep? Can we get help to keep these promises when times get tough? All these questions are valid. We would like to help find the answers to these questions for your life. Comment here.
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