USA Today stated that the social network giant, Facebook, has grown to over five hundred million members. That’s a lot of people. When they first started and had a mere one million members, they conducted a survey and discovered that the two favorite books of members were the Harry Potter series and the Bible. Now that they have crossed the five hundred million members mark, they conducted the same survey and found that the same two books, Harry Potter and the Bible, are still the two favorites. What do you and your circle of friends find to be your favorite books? It could have a huge influence on what and where the conversation goes with your friends. Comment here.
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There is a section on some of the social network websites that allow members to record their “hometown” and “current city”. Obviously, the hometown is where they were born and the current city is where they now reside. The average distance between those two cities within the United States is four hundred and eighty seven miles. That’s a pretty big distance which indicates that many people have moved away from their hometowns and are now living far away from their roots. Maybe this is one of the reasons these social websites have grown to the size they are today. How far away are you from your hometown? Have you left your roots? This can be very difficult and lonely at times. Let us know your thoughts. Comment here.
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It’s time for the baseball trade deadline and for football players to report to their training camps. Along with this, there seems to be an all too familiar ring in the air which revolves around the all-mighty dollar. Some players want a minimum of one million dollars for the 2010 season, or they won’t play. Some have even threatened to sit out the first ten games of the football season if they don’t get what they want, and have been quoted as saying they are “so angry” for not being rewarded as they think they should be. First of all, the amount these players make is baffling, and secondly, many of them seem to be extremely self-centered. What would happen if truckers acted this way? What is the center of your focus? Do you feel you are worth more than you receive? Let us know what you think our focus should be. Comment here.
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Ah, summertime. The sun shines, things grow, and fruit is plentiful at roadside stands. It’s a great time for lemonade, watermelon, grilling, camping, water recreation and vacationing! During one vacation, my older brother was driving us from Oakland to San Diego, California to visit relatives. We got as far as Modesto when the engine overheated. It seemed as if we spent half a day waiting for the garage to pressure-flush the block and radiator before we were back on the road. If we had prepared the car properly, we’d have been spared the aggravation, time lost and an extra night in a motel. As important as it is to prepare for a vacation trip however, preparing for other things is even more important. There is one trip we all must take, yet many have made no preparation to ensure a positive outcome. Know what that is? Comment here.
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Every driver has their own style. Drivers pick the lane they prefer to travel in, they choose when to gear down or up, and even when to turn their lights on or off. These are all choices a driver makes after considering safety, equipment requirements, and personal preference. Drivers choose their lifestyles as well. Their upbringing, environment, and what they have been taught influence this. What type of lifestyle have you chosen? Choose wisely, as your lifestyle affects not only you, but your family and those with whom you work. If you need help in this area, please give us a call. Comment here.
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Prison inmates can become what is known as ‘institutionalized’. They become so conditioned to life on the inside of a prison that they become afraid of any kind of change. When paroled, it’s hard for them to adjust to living outside on their own. Sometimes a person can get so comfortable with living in a state of brokenness that they’re too afraid to leave it. Is there something so familiar to you that you’re too afraid to change and therefore you miss out on becoming whole? It may be a toxic relationship or being forced to push the legal limits just to keep your job. In the long run, these things will cause more hurt and brokenness in your life, but you can take the proper steps now to make a change. We are available to help you take the first step to break free. Give us a call. Comment here.
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If you think about it, respect and obedience follow honoring parents, and obedience usually keeps us out of trouble. We are spared the consequences of mistakes we should never make. In turn, we may become parents with confident patterns by which to guide our own children. As husbands and fathers, we are responsible for rearing sound-minded children. We can have a way of making things hard for our kids and saying things that may frustrate them, which is counterproductive. We are also to love our wives, as though laying down our lives for them and by doing so, teaching love and respect to our sons and daughters by example. Let’s be worthy of the honor we receive from our wife and kids. Comment here.
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I recently read an Internet article that stated, “Truck drivers are important to the economy and fully required to keep companies rolling. Nearly all products sold in stores across the country have been transported at least one time before reaching the final destination by a commercial truck. Without truck drivers, the economy would be in deep difficulty, to say the least.” I hope this is a good reminder to you of just how essential you and your job really are. As a driver, you have an important role in society. We appreciate you and are here with this site because we want to help you with your overall wellness. Let us know what we can do to assist you. Comment here.
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The worst detour I can remember happened when I was driving on an interstate in PA, and because of a chemical spill, I was forced to take an exit that wasn’t even on my map. Cars, RV’s, vans, and trucks were everywhere; traffic was gridlocked and we literally crawled for hours. The normal hour-and-half trip took close to five. Sometimes it’s very difficult to accept it when our life gets detoured from the path we have carefully mapped out. This can happen when our kids make choices opposite of what we think is best for them, or when a company closes its doors and we are forced to start over with a new one, or when we are facing an unfavorable medical report. All of these can completely throw us off course. How do you handle detours in life? We’d like to help. Give us a call. Comment here.
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The driving public often has mistaken ideas about truckers. One lady I spoke to had the idea that truckers were like chain swinging, bristle-bearded “gangsta” thugs. She no doubt misread the strength, and the casual, often disheveled, look of the hard working driver who has just driven several thousand grueling miles for being a thug. The movies have contributed to that image, as well. While truckers are certainly tough, they are not necessarily bullies. There is a friend to truckers who has often been misread as well. This friend is actually looking out for you all the time, and not just on the road. He’s big, but not a bully and he can help you get to your final destination safely and happily. Do you wonder who this friend is?
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Every one of us hopes for things such as safety while on the road, companionship at home, job security for many years, and so on. When we hope for these things and they are taken from us, we may find ourselves becoming discouraged, bitter, and could stop having hope about anything. A driver recently told me of his difficulties with the new owner of his company. The young owner didn’t have the same values as the previous one and it was hurting the company and many of the employees. This particular driver was just hoping he could keep his job and continue working for this man. Staying optimistic when your job security is in jeopardy can seem impossible at times. If your spouse has made the choice to no longer be there for you, it’s hard not to lose heart. Yet, there is a way to have hope beyond what we know and understand now. Give us a call; we’d love to talk more about this. Comment here.
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Sunday, June 20, is our day, men. It’s the day set apart to honor fatherhood. I have spoken to many drivers who either did not know their fathers or didn’t have good relationships with them. For these men, honoring their fathers may be a difficult assignment. How does one honor someone who has treated them badly? When I was in the Army, we were to salute all officers. Some of these officers I did not like. We were told to salute their position, and give them their due honor that way. That was easier said than done, but we did it. One of the Ten Commandments is to honor our father and our mother. It’s the first commandment with the promise of blessing and long life attached to it. How are you doing in this area? Let us know if we can help. Comment here.
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Traveling across the country requires driving over mountain ranges and through deep valleys. It’s a necessary part of almost any trip. Many of the mountain roads have scenic turnoffs that will allow you to pull off to the side and enjoy the view. Similar to our life journey, we may experience mountain highs when our circumstances are good and we can simply pull over and enjoy the view. But in the next moment we are hit with a valley low that cause hard times to come. Where are you right now? How do you cope with these ups and downs? Let us know. Comment here.
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When I served in the Army and was dropped off by a C131 in Osan, Korea, that was a time in my life when I truly experienced loneliness. I knew absolutely no one, nor was I familiar with any place in that country. My first day of driving truck also stands out to me as a very lonely day in my life. I was assigned a truck, had it ready to go, and received my first dispatch. I was out on my own, and what I once viewed as glamorous was now very scary and very lonely. What was I to do? And remember, we didn’t have cell phones then. What do you do when you are feeling lonely? Whether you’ve been driving for twenty plus years or just starting out, there will be times of loneliness. Let us know if you need help. Comment here.
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Week after week, my schedule is pretty regular and I quite often travel the same route. On one particular road I drive on, I enjoy seeing an old farm house with a beautiful front porch. You know the kind I’m talking about: we all dream of quiet afternoons sitting on such a porch, relaxing with a glass of iced tea. During most weeks, I see an elderly gentleman sitting in one of two rockers on the porch, but I have never seen anyone sitting in the other one. I wonder who used to rock there with him. Even though we might long for quiet time, he must be pretty lonely. Who sits next to you? I’m not just talking about your truck or your porch; I’m referring to your life. Don’t go through life alone. Make sure you rock with someone.
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While reading about the life of an inmate at a local state penitentiary, the topic of loneliness caught my attention. The small concrete walls kept this man from communicating with others, and the cell didn’t allow him to shake hands, give high fives or hug anyone. He went on to say that this was the worst thing about being incarcerated. My thoughts then turned to truck drivers. You may not live in a small concrete cell, but you do live in an eight foot by eight foot steel box for hours a day and weeks on end. This, too, can become very lonely at times. Look for ways to continue your communication with others, not only for your sake, but for theirs as well. Comment here.
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Do you ever wonder where loneliness comes from or why it even comes? I believe that loneliness originates from alienation. You might be wondering: alienation from who or what? As drivers, you are often alienated from your families, loved ones, friends, your companies, and from a lot of what society regards as civilization. Drivers can spend all day and night in a truck, quite often eating alone, and what little conversation they have often comes in electronic form. What or who are you alienated from? You don’t have to do it alone. Let us know if you want to share or if we can help. Comment here.
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My son, a new driver, learned a hard lesson when he received a citation for pulling out of a side road in front of a stopped school bus the other day. The driver of the bus was angry and immediately called the police. A warning would have been easier to swallow, but unfortunately, the consequences involved a fine and points on my son’s record. Sometimes in life, we try and justify or rationalize what we are doing, expecting to get the easy way out, but that doesn’t always happen, does it? Let us know about something you’ve tried to rationalize instead of doing it the right way. Comment here.
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When I was in the Army, it was common to hear someone gripe or complain about a situation he did not like, from shining boots to marching in parades. Constant discipline, however, prepares men to be ready to defend their country. It’s great to watch a sharp drill team go through maneuvers, but that kind of discipline doesn’t come without much training and practice. As a truck driver, there are many things to gripe about. Does the job get to you sometimes? Be thankful for a paying job so you can provide for your family. Has a construction zone got you tied up? Remember, that’s how a bumpy road gets smooth. The next time you are grumbling about the everyday occurrences common to a trucker’s life, consider this: you are being trained to become a great driver, a great husband, and a great father. Try being thankful for each challenge and consider it practice to become the best person you can be. Comment here.
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Driver, you know if you take the wrong road, you will not get where you intended to go. When I was working a job during my college days, I had a delivery to make from Emeryville, CA to Concord, CA. I took off on the wrong road and was headed toward the wrong town, but thought I was going the right way. Suddenly, it dawned on me that I had envisioned another town, and was heading for that destination. I was out of route, late, and had to back track. In life, there are many roads we could take, but only one way to the Truth. Which way have you taken? Want to talk about it? Comment here.
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Recently my nephew tried to use his four-cylinder car as a four-wheel drive vehicle on a rugged, mountain road. Needless to say, the road won and his transmission lost. It was an expensive lesson and he is still paying the price for that decision. Why do we sometimes use the wrong means to try to reach a goal? It usually costs us more in the long run. Think about your life, finances, marriage, and parenting. Evaluate if you are using the wrong methods to get where you’d like to be. Comment here.
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Recently my nephew wanted to help by backing my car into the garage, and we all know how difficult backing can be. We both felt sick when he accidently hit the work bench and did hundreds of dollars of damage to my recently purchased car. He felt terrible and wanted to pay for the repairs, which would have meant more loans for this college student. It was decision time: show mercy or let him pay the price? We all make mistakes and sometimes we just need someone to extend grace to us. Has anyone ever done this for you? We’d love to talk more about this. Comment here.
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Driver, are you laboring under a load? Maybe you have had to drive too many miles lately, or maybe not enough. Are you carrying a financial burden? Or is it that you haven’t had enough home time recently? There is one who invites you to come to him for rest. He does not promise to eliminate all your problems like magic, but he knows how to lend men hope and strength. We can help. Comment here.
As my daughter and I were traveling recently, she accidentally hit a button on our GPS and changed our destination. Neither of us realized it at the time. While we were still traveling in the same general direction, our specific location was miles away. Something didn’t seem right when I began to notice city lights and tall buildings; I then realized we were slightly off course. Do you feel this way sometimes with life? You know you’re going somewhere, but aren’t sure you are heading in the right direction? Give us a call. We’d like to talk about this with you. Comment here.
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It’s hard not to notice the variety of bumper stickers on vehicles today. Everything from yellow ‘Support Our Troops’ ribbons to soccer balls to political slogans to ‘I Love My Dachshund’ stickers. People like for others to know of their hobbies, likes, dislikes, and interests. Displaying these stickers is one way to do that. We all want to be known. What do you want others to know about you? If you feel as if no one knows you right now, give us a call. We’d like to get to know you. Comment here.
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Do certain questions about life plague you? Questions such as, ‘Where is the life I have lost while trying to live?’ ‘Why do I seek knowledge, but have no wisdom?’ ‘Why do I search for pleasure, but have no joy?’ ‘Why do I look for happiness, but have no satisfaction?’ ‘And why, as a truck driver, do I work so hard to make a living, but have no life?’ There are answers to questions such as these. Let us help you find them. Comment here.
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Do you remember the cartoon strip Mutt and Jeff? One day half-pint Jeff says to giant Mutt, “I heard you say that you are a self-made man.” Mutt, looking down his rather large nose, replies, “Yes I am.” Jeff says, “Why then did you make yourself look like that?” Some drivers believe they are self made men and proudly put on a macho façade. They really come off as self-centered and closed-minded. My question is, “Why would anyone want to look like that?”
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Our physical health is influenced by the food we eat. Each and every bite we take is either used as fuel or stored as fat in our bodies. That’s why health professionals raise awareness of what foods will make the biggest difference in the quality of life. Our minds are the same way. Each and every thought we let in is either used for good or bad. We need to become aware of how we think and channel our thoughts towards affirming, positive and loving directions. We can increase the quality of our life by actively changing how we think. Tell us what you think. Comment here.
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In almost every efficient trucking company, there are several roles involved: an owner, an operations manager, a dispatcher, customer service representatives, customers, and of course drivers. If anything is missing, the company will not function well. The same applies to you as a person. There are many different “ingredients” that are needed for you to function well. Do you feel something is missing? Not sure what? Give us a call. Comment here.
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Drivers often speak of their appreciation of highway scenery. Soon the snow will be gone and the hillsides will become green again for spring. What a pleasure it will be to see the lush land that we live in. Have you ever wondered where all of this beauty came from? Tell us what you think. Comment here.
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I was recently inspired by my daughter. Her coach criticized her intensely. It would have been easy to stay angry, yet she overcame a tough situation with a positive attitude and team spirit on game day. Her approach even helped me to have a better attitude.
What or who inspires you when you are in a tough situation? It isn’t always easy to do the right thing. Look around today and notice what motivates you in good ways. If you’re still feeling uninspired, give us a call. We’d love to talk with you about it.Comment here.
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Bad habits, while easy to make, are extremely hard to break. Certainly, we all have at least one bad habit such as nail biting, smoking, swearing or interrupting others. Did you know that a good habit takes more time to form than a bad one? On average, it takes at least twenty-one days. If you’re trying to break a bad habit try replacing it with a good one. Chew gum next time you want to smoke or listen to some calming music instead of griping about your day. Give us a call. We’d be happy to help you come up with a game plan to break your bad habit. Comment here.
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Have you ever noticed when things go bad how easy it is to focus on only the negative aspect of your situation? Even though we really have much to be thankful for, we tend to hyper focus the bad things that happen instead. In some ways, we are a lot like buckets. If I dwell on the things that go bad, the disappointments of life or on nursing grudges against those who have wronged me, then I hold or add those things in my “bucket”. When I need to pour out my bucket to those around me, guess what will come out? Nothing good, that’s for sure. Besides the things we kept from our upbringing, we are the sum of what we add to our life.
How about focusing on the blessings you have or the good things that happen to you instead? Soon, you’ll have a bucket full of happiness that will refresh not only yourself but also those around you. Comment here.
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There are many reasons people drive trucks: the lifestyle, raised by a trucking family, out of necessity, the money, or independence. Some drive because they are running away from something they don’t want to face: responsibility for their marriage or family, authority figures in the law or workplace, relationships with others, or their past.
I knew a guy who was running and didn’t even know it. Someone pursued and caught him. From then on, his life straightened out and he even made a great contribution to society. Are you running? Want to talk about it? Comment here.
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Driver, have you ever heard the saying, "It's all relative?" This is in reference to the concept that what is truth to me, may not be truth to you. In fact, I could believe in something diametrically opposite to what you believe, but that's ok. As long as we hold to our belief, right?
Actually, the whole concept that truth is relative is absurd. There is absolute truth and no amount of believing it differently will change it. Here's an example: One day, a driver was traveling from Chicago, Illinois to Grand Rapids, Michigan. The entire trip, he believed he was on tghe road to Grand Rapids. That was his truth. However, he wound up in Toledo, Ohio instead. This example illustrates that absolute truths do exsit, no matter what you believe about it. Want to hear more? Comment here.
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Remember the story about the Three Little Pigs? Do you recall the moral of the story? The foundation your life is built on will make all the difference when it comes to success, achieving major growth and overcoming life’s struggles.
Just like the pig whose house didn’t fall down, you must have a secure base to build on. Knowing your foundation is secure will help you feel safe. You also need complete understanding of what needs to take place in order to achieve your goals. You also need to be prepared for growth and change. Want to know how to get started? Give us a call. Comment here.
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Last year on New Year’s Day, while stopping at the truck stop to fuel up, a TV crew came up to me and asked that question. Now, I ask you the same question: What do you expect in the New Year? Do you hope for more miles this year than last year? Maybe you are working for a new company and are looking for more regular home times.
Have you ever thought about how this relates to your lifestyle? What kind of character are you developing in this New Year? Is integrity or honesty part of it? When we die, we all leave a legacy behind, whether good or bad. What kind of legacy would you leave behind if you died this year? Do some changes need to be made? We can help. Comment here.
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Life on the road can become long and difficult at times. Sometimes it’s hard to get through it. But if you desire to move through it successfully, manage your circumstances better than before, or have more meaningful, fulfilling relationships, then you’re in the right spot. Albert Einstein once said “If you want different results, do not do the same things.” The first step to changing your life is to do something different than what you’ve done before. Let us know how we can help. Comment here.
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I’ve heard that life is like a roller coaster. It sometimes provides us with thrills as we are thrust up and down and from side to side. But in the end, we know what will happen. The ride will end and we will exit the roller coaster and deal with the pain from that ride. It’s very predictable. Some would say that life is like white water rafting. While it’s similar to a roller coaster there is some uncertainty on how the ride will go. In both of these examples, our ride or destiny is up to us to decide. How will you decide your destiny? Do you know your destiny? Comment here.
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Ever wonder why you are not better than you are? Many times it is not from lack of trying. The truth is that we cannot be our best on our own power. Suppose you are trying to quit cussing. You can go along for awhile and do pretty well, until something catches you off guard, and the air turns blue. Then there’s that matter of an honest log book. Need I say more? We can never be at our best without help. There is a way. Want to talk about it? Comment here.
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Many drivers have told me, “Driving is the only thing I know.” I usually hear this whenever the driver feels their livelihood is going to be taken away. They feel a bit desperate. While this statement may be true for any driver, it doesn’t mean that one cannot learn something new. Maybe you can learn a new trade? Then you’d have two areas of skills to work with. It is not so much how many things we know; it is what we do with the skills we have. Want to talk about it? Contact us.Comment here.
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Today, it is much easier to find our way on the highway. There was a time when that was not the case. Roads were not well-marked, and sometimes were impassible for trucks. Even if you called the company you were going to, you’d get someone who was totally unaware of truck restrictions since they only knew the way by car. Your best source was someone who had actually been there before. Eventually, road maps and special atlases suitable for truckers were developed. Now, we have satellites encircling the globe that enable GPS technology to locate not only where we are but how to get where we want to go.
For life’s ‘highway’, there are guides to get us through without getting lost. Want to know more? Contact us. Comment here.
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In 1979, the company where I worked transferred me 2,000 miles to the city I’m living in now. On the “Big Moving Day”, I spoke with the driver (who owned his own rig), and found out he made $81,000 the previous year--three times what I was making! It was an eye opener for me on how well an o/o could do. He was fast, too. I had to fly in order to be at our new house when he arrived with our furniture. Well, the other side of that gilded coin is the risk taken by an o/o. I got to Ohio as scheduled, but he was a couple days late because he broke down on the way.
These days, I hear more tales of woe than easy living and I think about that driver who pushed himself so hard and always worked to have “just a little more.” I wonder what it cost him, especially with so many o/o’s struggling to make ends meet in our current economy. We can spend all our lives reaching for the gold ring and in the end, find it is made of brass. What are you reaching for? Want to talk about it? Contact us. Comment here.
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I remember watching the film “It’s a Wonderful Life,” where George, the lead character is told that he was worth more dead than alive. After contemplating the insult through a depression haze, fogged over by a couple drinks, George attempts suicide. Enter Clarence, an Angel sent to show George he is valued and loved. In the end, George realizes his life has value that is richer than all the money in the world. Driver, do you ever feel worthless like George did? The dispatcher expects you to fly low, the shipper expects you to be there when he is ready to ship, the receiver wanted it yesterday, DOT wants to inspect your log book and DOT the truck. On top of all that, you have a family back home that needs you to be there. Sometimes, the demands and expectations of others can make you feel worthless. Don’t forget that you are valuable and loved, whether you know it or not. We can help. Comment here.
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We’ve all read about or know of people who either made it to the top of their corporation or own their own corporation. Whenever I would read about someone like this, I wish I could try having it all for awhile. The fact is it is not possible to “try it.” It requires a lifetime of hard work and sacrifice. People at all levels have literally given their all to reach their goals and end up with disappointed expectations and empty victory. I imagine they’ll eventually wonder when they look at what they’ve amassed and ask, “Is this all there is?” Balance is wisdom. Riches and power can provide comfort, but they cannot guarantee happiness or satisfaction. The pursuit of riches is not all there is to life. There is much more. We can help. Comment here.
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One popular belief is that whatever is true for you is ok, and whatever is true for me is ok, even if they are different. It sounds harmless on the surface. The only problem is that what we believe directs our choices. For instance, let’s say we are both flying in an airliner and we each have to visit the restroom. You believe that the doors in the rear of the plane lead to restrooms, so you open one of those doors and find the restroom. I, on the other hand, believe that the door on the side of the plane with a red “T” handle leads to the restroom. But if I opened that door the plane would depressurize and I would probably be sucked out in the process. What I believed was not the truth at all and acting on it would really not be ok. There are truths that cannot be changed. If you would like to learn more about some of those truths, please let us know. Comment here.
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In the last few years, several independent driving schools have emerged all across the country. Many companies have been doing this for a long time. The purpose is to teach non-experienced drivers how to maneuver the big rigs. After they finish school, they go to work for a company and then they have to ride with a trainer for a while. Many of you either are or have been driver trainers. Life is the same way. We all have experiences to share and things to learn from one another. We can be like life driver trainers to one another out on the road. Instruct one another. Comment here.
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Around election time, we regularly hear the slogan “Your vote counts.” Does it really? How can one person stopping at a voting booth make a difference? Well, it does, but I can understand why you would ask such a question. Look at the world around us. Look at the unlimited stars in the sky. Look at the vast number of people in the world today. Look at the number of trucks on the highways (roughly 23 million used for business). After observing these things, it would be easy to ask “Do I really matter?” You do. You matter to someone. If you don’t know who that is, call us today. Comment here.
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Whatever you are going through right now, whether it’s marital trouble, financial difficulties, anger problems, or loneliness, you probably wish someone would come along side and offer you some kind words. Your days are filled with enough discouraging words and put downs. You need to hear some encouraging words and it’s always nice to be praised. You know, this doesn’t apply only to you. Other people around you have the same need. Let me encourage you to encourage one another today. Comment here.
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This blog often asks you how you feel about several different topics varying from anger to your self-worth, acceptance, love, marriage, or loneliness. Today, I would like to ask you a different type of question. What emotions or issues do you inspire in others? These same issues apply to how we influence the emotions of our spouses, children, co-workers or others. Are you building others up by the things you say? Or do your words tear them down? Don’t forget, their sense of significance is influenced by what we say and do. Use your influence to build them up today. Just like you, they are important too and want to be accepted regardless of what they do. Comment here.
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Have you ever asked yourself, does anybody care? Does what you do make a difference in the world? Have the mistakes you’ve made had an effect on how people view you? These are all valid questions that we ask ourselves at one time or another. If we didn’t get the answers we wanted to those questions, we may feel worthless and then angry. You are not the only one to ask these things and the truth is that someone does care for you. You do matter that much. We’d be happy to help you learn more. Give us a call today. Comment here.
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Angry and bitterness often set in when we feel we are not being valued by others. It can seem like our families don’t appreciate us, our company doesn’t understand how hard we work out on the road while they go home at night or our friends are too busy to stay in touch. Our perception is more powerful than other’s intentions. Remember this, most of the time the people in our lives have no intention of undervaluing us. So, adjust your perception and rest assured that someone cares for you. If you need help with that, let us know. We value you too! Comment here.
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Drivers really look forward to their time at home. After working hard for days or weeks at a time, going home means it’s finally time to get some rest and pampering from our families, right? The reality is that seldom happens. Our spouses are busy with household chores and managing the kids and cannot meet our every need. The kids have their own agendas for their time which means they have very little time to spend with us. Our expectation of what would happen when we get home gets trashed. What does this do for your self-worth? If you’re like me, you might feel angry because we don’t feel respected by the ones we work so hard to provide for. Remember that you are still valuable and needed in your family even when they don’t show you any respect. Don’t let anger and bitterness set in either; be quick to forgive. Your family needs your love and care. Let them know you’re looking forward to quality time with them and be patient. I promise, your time at home will be more enjoyable. Comment here.
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How do you feel when others affirm or accept you? You feel good, right? So, now tell me how you feel when others ignore or mistreat you? You probably get angry. Anger is a defense mechanism that we use for self-preservation. We are trying to defend ourselves against what others say about our work performance or our character. While your work performance may affect your employment, it is not a measure of your self-worth. You are important to someone all the time. Remember that the next time someone criticizes you. It will help keep your anger in check. Comment here.
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Do you base your self-worth in the approval of others? If you answered yes, then you might be an “approval addict.” Approval junkies only feel good about themselves, if other people approve of them. They also struggle with several other issues: attempting to please others at any cost, the fear of rejection, a hyper-sensitivity to criticism and withdrawing from people in order to avoid their disapproval. Obviously, there are several problems with thinking this way. I have news for you; you will disappoint someone. You can’t please everyone. Instead, set good standards for yourself and live by them. If you fail to meet those standards, apologize and learn from those mistakes. Now, the question becomes “How do I set good standards?” We’d be happy to discuss this with you. Contact us. Comment here.
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When considering your self-worth, do you get caught in the “shame game”? In other words, do you believe that the problems or weaknesses you have are just a reflection of who you really are? And that there’s no changing it? Maybe you believe that’s just how you were born or that it’s hereditary. You may even say things like, “I am hopeless”. Feelings of shame and inferiority captivate your thoughts. Keep playing the “shame game” and you will eventually become passive, lose all creativity and isolate yourself from others. If you have set bad or low standards for yourself in the past, no need to worry. You can be regenerated. This means to become new. You don’t have to stay that old way. Set new, higher standards for yourself. Also remember, it’s not healthy to base your value on the sum of your problems or weaknesses. Be sure you base your self-worth on the right stuff. Need help with that? Contact us. We’re here for you. Comment here.
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Do you find yourselves blaming someone else when you make a mistake? This is called the “blame game.” Did you know that people often do this because they feel unworthy of acceptance or love especially when they fail? If you struggle with this particular habit, you will actually believe that you deserve punishment for failing. The difficulty with this mentality is that even though you believe you deserve it, you fear punishment. So you withdraw from others or blame them in order to avoid facing any failure. This is not healthy. Remember there is someone out there that loves and accepts you regardless of your mistakes. Comment here.
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Some people make the mistake of establishing their self worth based upon their performance. This is called the “performance trap.” The idea is that “you must meet certain standards in order to feel good about yourself.” However, this is not true because you will fall short at times. Some of the problems that go along with this are fear of failure, perfectionism, and manipulation of others to get what you want along with withdrawing from taking healthy risks. Don’t fall into this trap. Don’t get me wrong, you must have standards, but don’t determine your significance upon accomplishing them 100% of the time. Choose realistic and healthy standards. Comment here.
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In the military, SOP stands for “standard operating procedure.” That means there is a procedure for how the military will get things done that has been written up and approved. Instead of creating your own way of getting things done, everyone is expected to follow SOP. In fact, there will be consequences if you don’t follow these standards. I’m sure trucking companies function in a similar fashion. In order to work there, you are expected to abide by the SOP set forth for each and every member of that company (they’re not just for drivers). Maybe you’ve seen the effect of a company not having an SOP? There was probably a great deal of chaos and stress, right? Like the military and trucking companies, setting an SOP or a standard for your life will help you avoid chaos and negative consequences. The trick is to set good standards. These standards will be what you base your significance on. Do you know how to set good standards? Where can you find them? Comment here.
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Do you ask yourself, “Is there a place for me?” Look at the people you come in contact with every day of your life. Look at your family members. What would their lives look like if you were not there? There are an awful lot of kids growing up without a dad or mom. There are an awful lot of spouses left alone. You make a difference by just being a part of someone else’s life. Has your involvement helped or hurt those closest to you? Maybe the answer to that question might not be what you want it to be, but there is time to change. You can start making a difference in someone’s life today by knowing and realizing you are important to someone, and have a place waiting for you. Comment here.
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Does what you’re doing really matter? To whom does it matter? Each one of us asks ourselves these questions about our life from time to time. As drivers, it often seems like we’re viewed as just a number. Our company could fill the truck we drive with another driver and life would go on. Almost as if we don’t really matter. Drivers tell me quite often that they wonder why they are out here on the road. They feel like they’re not really accomplishing anything. Truth is you do matter. It takes a team to get the job done. Each of us has different gifts and talents that apply to the team. Each of us plays a particular role in accomplishing the goal. Know your part, and do it well. Comment here.
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